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The resident Watch Cat by KSR

The Christmas cakes and cookies have been baked, and the cards were made and sent on time for a change, the presents bought and wrapped. I’m feeling pretty good about Christmas this year instead of having a near panic attack as is usually the case. But one thing I’m not making this year, or maybe ever, is another Christmas gingerbread house.

We made some “pretty limp attempts” when our children were small, but one year when the grandchildren arrived, I went all out and built the world’s biggest, most fabulous three-story gingerbread Victorian mansion ever imagined by man or child.

It stood about 18 inches high, and the gingerbread was totally covered with either frosting or candy. It was beautiful beyond belief and everything a gingerbread house should be.

At the annual Christmas party it was the hit of the evening, and as its architect and builder, I glowed with pride. It stood on its own separate table in the place of honor, but unfortunately, I have lost the photos I took of it from every angle, so you will just have to take my word for it.

When the season was over, we carefully lifted this enormous confection and lovingly packed it away till the following year. We protected it with tissue paper, and carefully sealed the cardboard container against dust and dirt in the attic.

The following Christmas, while taking down the collection of holiday decorations, I opened the large cardboard box, to find——nothing.

Going down stairs, I asked my husband what he had done with gingerbread house box. Just as puzzled as I, we looked inside the box, and found one or two pieces of candy. Nothing else. Just two pieces of candy.

As we all know, it gets pretty cold and lonely outside for a small mouse, and our mouse obviously has a sweet tooth as well, so who can blame him for seeking shelter in a warm box containing a feast fit for a king, and even inviting some friends over for a snack or two? Not I.

Author: kaytisweetlandrasmussen83

I am a retired fine arts teacher, sculptor/painter, writer, and a native Californian. I love my family,dogs, horses, movies, reading and music, probably in that order. I have been married forever to a very nice man who is nice to old ladies, dogs and children.


  1. What a nice gift for the holidays. I literally typed into my google search ‘attaining balance eat pray love’ because I am literally right now watching the movie and your blog was the first thing that popped up. I began reading and felt peace. I am a 42 year old mom of three, my third daughter was just born in October and I have two other daughters 5 and my soon to be 8 year old, as of tomorrow. I am the working mom and my husband stays at home, he’s a saint, well except the times I want to kill him, anyway I digress… With the craziness that’s been going on and the fact my maternity leave ends soon I’m a bit disarrayed, if that’s even a word. Anyway stumbling on your blog was a gift to me by the powers that be, so thank you, have a lovely holiday and I will be reading, I’ve bookmarked you :). PS to tie into your post funny enough we have had mice the past few weeks, they got into the kids Halloween candy so they had to be dealt with, and we made one of those pre made gingerbread houses which I actually let my kids eat this year.


  2. Darling story and extremely well written. You are the most amazing woman I know. Lunch in January. Please send me a date. I know where we will go.
    Much love to my surrogate mother, Kayti.


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