New London, Connecticut, 1938
Through these past years I have blogged about various events which happened during our time in New London, Connecticut. Whether more things happened to me during that time, or whether I was simply old enough to have a better memory I can’t say, but Connecticut made a deep impression on me.
Still living in the details of my memory; the hurricane of 1938, my near-kidnapping, rustic country life and the summer-long case of poison ivy which greeted our arrival in New London, Connecticut.
In 1938 we received orders to go to New London, for two and a half years where my father began training in the submarine service. We loaded our belongings into our used black Chevy car and set out across country, like today’s migrants.
Assigned to the submarine base, both enlisted men and some officers could choose to find their own living quarters, which were few and far between off the base.
Our first was a one-room apartment bathroon-down-the-hall over a small grocery store, and the second was slightly better though it had no indoor plumbing, just a privy some distance away. Water had to be pumped each morning, and baths were taken in a tub after water had been heated on a huge wood stove. It sounds awful, and it was, but for two and a half years it was our home.
The whole monstrosity overlooked a large field and a small lake which in New England is called a pond. The field was promptly planted with vegetables, and the pond supplied recreation both in summer and in winter when it froze solid and we skated. During the winter freeze I skated part of the way to school.
Connecticut abounds with rivers and streams, and we lived between the pond and across the road from the Thames River, a deep-water river with the Submarine Base situated on its shore. Local kids swam in sight of the diving tower, where my Dad trained. It was there I first learned to swim when my father threw me into the river.
The Base had a commissary, or ship’s stores, where we did most of our shopping. There was a movie theater, a bowling alley, and other places of recreation. A large parade ground was in the middle of the compound, and there was always a dress parade on Saturday mornings, where I loved to watch my father, in his dress blues, march in formation behind the Navy band. We Navy kids used to play ‘parade’ with a majorette, and the rest of us following behind blowing on combs covered with waxed paper.
The first winter we lived there, New England felt the tremendous power of a hurricane, still referred to as one of the worst of the century. It was a school day and we were all hustled into the hallway to protect us from flying glass should the windows cave in. The incredible roar of the wind and the rain pounding on the roof was very frightening. One of the big double doors at the end of the hall blew open, and three teachers pushing on it could not close it. When the noise quieted, and the wind calmed somewhat, we were sent to our various homes.
It still amazes me that we were sent on our way alone in the wake of such a terrible storm. But the road was impassable for cars because of fallen trees etc. I lived some three miles from the school and walked each way except for cutting off about a mile in winter. The rest of the children were local farm children whose parents in most cases had attended the same small school.
The school consisted of two rooms and the principal’s office and I went there during part of the fifth and all of the sixth and seventh grades. We were expected to memorize poems regularly, and a Charles Kingsley poem reproached: “Be good, sweet maid, and let who will be clever.” I still feel a twinge of guilt knowing I grew up more clever than good, and as a “sweet maid” I was a disappointment. Having practiced being “good” up to this time without gaining the benefit of friends, I chose to be funny.
I still remember the smell of oiled wooden floors in the closkroom, wet wool snowsuits, and egg or tuna sandwiches emanating from the tin lunchboxes or paper bags containing our lunches. I had close contact with these odors on the occasions when I was sent out of the room to consider my acts of disobedience.
My teacher, Miss Lillian Ingraham, was possibly the best teacher I ever had, and thought I was smarter than I was, because I had read the most books, for which I received a prize. She was quite tall and skinny and had dyed red hair and eyes in the back of her head. She placed me in the front row, not because I had trouble seeing the board, (which I did) but so that she could keep one of her eyes on me.
A boy named Cecil Kirk was in my fifth grade class and passed me a note one day suggesting that we meet after school behind a certain stone wall, where he would show me ‘his’ and I would reciprocate. I ran most of the way home never looking at the aforementioned stone wall. We never spoke again.
I was not a star at team sports, but I was a fast runner, and could shinny up the flag pole faster than most of the boys. I was also an apt pupil of my father in games of marbles, cards, and mumbly-peg, which was a game of skill in throwing a jack-knife point down into a preordained spot within a large circle drawn in the dirt. I ‘m afraid that most of the games my father taught me were not looked upon with great favor by my teachers.
14 thoughts on “CROSSING THE COUNTRY Kate’s Journal”
Did you keep journals in your past or is this all from memory? Sounds like you’ve had some amazing and also some harrowing experiences (and some not-so-amazing bathrooms…). How nice that you’re chronicling them like this.
I did keep diaries off and on Carrie, but surprisingly so much stays bright and shiny. Names are hard to remember sometimes, but never faces.
I learned early on that using an outdoor privy provided a wonderful opportunity to practice your singing.
Ha, I imagine so. 🙂
The smells weren’t so different when I was in grade school — particularly the oiled wood, and the snow-covered mittens, scarves, and hats roasting away on the radiators. They all were wool, of course, and some of that wool wasn’t of the highest quality.
One of my customers was in the submarine service. I don’t know if I could do that. I’ve never thought of myself as claustrophobic, but I never got beyond snorkeling to scuba diving — the thought of going down,down,down into the deeps was something I couldn’t deal with. Doing it in a tin can — even a sophisticated tin can — doesn’t appeal at all.
Storms are scary. I’ll never go through another hurricane if I can avoid it. Even a low-level tropical storm can be anxiety-producing. My building begins to rattle at 60 mph, and shake at 79. But it survived Ike, so I guess it’s not going to fall apart.
I went on subs as a Sunday visitor but never submerged. Scuba can be a little scary depending upon where you are. I found I couldn’t even snorkel anymore a few years ago when in Hawaii. I had an asthma attack and that was the last time I tried even though I had done a lot of it in the Hood Canal even when by myself. Never a good idea though to be alone. Thinking of woolen mittens etc., my first swim suit was a hand-me-down from my aunt and was heavy wool. I would hate to have been doing a time trial swimming; it really dragged you down. I remember it was flesh colored and looked like you had nothing on. Pretty embarrassing for a 11 yr. old girl.
I plan to write a bit more about that hurricane. You do get a few storms like that. We seem to be having so much more extreme weather everywhere, and I think we are still in Hurricane season.
Yes, “The Season” extends until November 1, although I pretty much stop worrying about it October 1. Even if a storm pops in October, the water is cooling, and they tend to be less severe.
I’d forgotten about those wool bathing suits. I’ve seen the photos, though of course I wasn’t around for that particular treat!
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They were also itchy!
haha, I particularly enjoyed this episode. What with Miss Lillian’s eyes and Cecil’s “his”. Fantastic recall you have. What effect do you think that moving from place to place and school to school with your father’s work had on you?
It made me never want to move again. It’s hard on a kid to try to make friends and then leave them. On the other hand, you tend to try to “run your own ship”.
I especially loved this episode too, I was with you at every turn. You paint a wonderful picture, this time without the use of watercolours. 🙂
Thanks Gil.Heavens. It constantly amazes me how much is remembered from our pasts. We think we move on, but we don’t. It is still part of what makes us “us”.
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Wow, what a memory, and so interesting. I love hearing stories like this — mostly because I know they are part of a past that few will remember after my generation passes. (I don’t think my grandchildren would even know what an outhouse was!) I think often that WWII, which is real to me, is just a history book item to the new generation, my grandchildren. They rarely, if ever, come into contact with someone who was actually there. They only read in books like Tom Brokaw’s, that it was the Greatest Generation who fought and helped to win a war against the evils of the Nazis. Thank you for the trip down memory lane.
Thanks again Val. It’s hard to believe that they don’t even know about some of the iconic battles which shaped the United States. As I told a young student years ago when we were on our way to the 50th anniversary of D-Day: “If we hadn’t won that battle you’d be speaking German now.”
It will be interesting to know what they will tell their grandchildren about the Presidential election of 2016!
A disappointment as a “sweet maid”. Ha, ha–words to live by!
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